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We Don't Live Here Anymore

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Married couple Jack (Mark Ruffalo) and Terry Linden (Laura Dern) are experiencing a difficult period in their relationship. When Jack decides to step outside the marriage, he becomes involved with Edith (Naomi Watts), who happens to be the wife of his best friend and colleague, Hank Evans (Peter Krause). Learning of their partners' infidelity, Terry and Hank engage in their own extramarital affair together. Now, both marriages and friendships are on the brink of collapse.
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Critics Consensus

We Don't Live Here Anymore is often overly moody and grim, but it's made watchable by the strong performances for its four principal actors.

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Nell Minow Common Sense Media Dec 29, 2010
2/5
Movie about adultery for adults only. Go to Full Review Glenn Kenny Premiere Magazine Nov 2, 2004
1/4
Dubus, anticipating the dreaded Raymond Carver, is only concerned with the interiority of the characters. It's solipsism once removed; and in this film, it's that times four. Go to Full Review Jay Boyar Orlando Sentinel Oct 1, 2004
3/5
We Don't Live Here Anymore is, you might say, a movie for adults who are, perhaps, a smidge too impressed with being adults. Go to Full Review Felicia Feaster Creative Loafing Feb 3, 2020
[A] ponderously "important" but emotionally hollow analysis of infidelity's cruel undertow. Go to Full Review Kaleem Aftab The List Apr 24, 2019
4/5
It's the relationship that doesn't involve sex between [Mark Ruffalo] and [Peter Krause] that's the real clincher. Their games of one-upmanship and bravado fizzle with a kinetic tension... Go to Full Review Gregory Freitas Hollywood.com Nov 20, 2008
2/5
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Robert P @Superbad Sep 26, 2026 This Movie is a *3* star Movie!! See more Wendy C @RT29560753 Sep 11, 2026 What a crap waste of time movie...about a subject that I know happens...but as to watching it on screen....so ridiculous...Such a fab cast of actors ...I wonder why they bothered making this stupid movie with no real substance at all ....just dribbling on about marriage and infidelity...who would find it entertaining....I certainly didnt. If I had known it was going to be more dribbling on an on I would have stopped watching it half way through. BUT because of the cast I continued...what a waste of time it all was. See more Shawn E @Bahllusyourmouthous Aug 22, 2026 It’s mark wokey woke and Dino Dern tell the other scientists she’s taken. Mark lays a egg turd in this one. See more Lauren M @realitycheck11 Dec 22, 2025 This movie sucked the big one. People with no sense of responsibility fall into an affair for sex and just don't know it. They think it is love but it is not. Childish and irresponsible but in the end the man cannot leave his wife, because in the end he loves her and does not want to ruin his marriage. The wife having the affair with him just wants to change her life and marriage and I think any man would have been ok she was ripe for an affair rather than just divorcing her husband she just leaves him. Stupidest movie I ever saw. She needed to grow a pair and divorced him long ago. As for the man involved in the affair - it was just pure sex when it comes down to it. Immaturity - pure and simple, boredom - pure and simple. Nothing redeeming about this movie just pure crap. See more andrea c @Charst Aug 8, 2021 Dramma che lega a doppio filo le vite di due coppie di "amici" che vivono crisi di coppia ed intrighi amorosi. I dialoghi sono ben strutturati ed i personaggi ben strutturati; forse la pecca maggiore è far girare tutto intorno a Mark Ruffalo, che forse è il meno interessante dei quattro. Nel complesso i due caratteri sono creati molto meglio e sono molto sensuali. See more Aug 6, 2017 Good performances, mostly Laura Dern ?, incredibly depressing, based on stories by Andre Dubus See more Read all reviews
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John Curran

Director

Mark Ruffalo

Jack Linden

Laura Dern

Terry Linden

Peter Krause

Hank Evans

Naomi Watts

Edith Evans

Sam Charles

Sean Linden

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Synopsis Married couple Jack (Mark Ruffalo) and Terry Linden (Laura Dern) are experiencing a difficult period in their relationship. When Jack decides to step outside the marriage, he becomes involved with Edith (Naomi Watts), who happens to be the wife of his best friend and colleague, Hank Evans (Peter Krause). Learning of their partners' infidelity, Terry and Hank engage in their own extramarital affair together. Now, both marriages and friendships are on the brink of collapse.
Director
John Curran
Producer
Harvey Kahn, Naomi Watts, Jonas Goodman
Screenwriter
Andre Dubus, Larry Gross
Distributor
Warner Independent
Production Co
Renaissance Films, Front Street Productions
Rating
R (Sexual Content|Language)
Genre
Drama, Romance
Original Language
English
Release Date (Theaters)
Jan 20, 2004, Original
Release Date (Streaming)
Dec 1, 2008
Box Office (Gross USA)
$2.0M
Runtime
1h 41m
Sound Mix
Dolby Digital, Surround
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